Talkshow mogul, Oprah Winfrey had a message for Robin aka Rihanna Fenton: 'If a man hits you once, he'll do it again.'
This is soul food for thought, people. Do not stay with any man who will beat you like you're a man. I don't care if it's over last night's crappy dinner, a shopping spree or a text message. Leave because the next time, it may be worse and you may not have the opportunity to tell your side of the story in person.
Yes, people can and do change. They get help and they mature in their thinking and their behavior, but this isn't something that occurs overnight. Chris Brown needs help before he can truly reconcile with this young lady and be an emotional asset to her. His past was filled with traumatic incidents of violence (allegedly) so his propensity for violence is a no brainer. Again, there are exception to every "rule," but in this case, the "rule" seems to fairly apply.
Maybe I'm slow, but has it been stated what the fight was over? Wasn't it a text message then the allegation that Brown allegedly infected Rihanna with Herpes? Anyway, watch the video to listen to Oprah's message to Rihanna:
All I hear is people talking about these two young people need help has anyone offer their help. All I hear is people talking about the situation and no one offering any solution. You hear a lot of negative things being said and none of you are God. Who are you to pass judgement on someone and who are you to say that a person can not change? Do you know this person's heart, or what is in his mind, and life? Let's stop playing God and try to help these young people understand why this happen and what can they do to fix this in their lives. Think of yourself as a parent and feel what each parent is going through. Let's offer these young people help and guidence. Let's stop with the accusations, the name calling, seeking five minutes of fame in the media and help these young people. Oprah is watch daily my thousands of young and old people stop with making conclusion of how this is going to end and let's get them help before there is such an ending. Question, of all the people who has been in abusive relationship that are speaking out now did they seek help, did they reach out for professional help, did their families sought help for them? No!!
ReplyDeleteCan Chris change his ways yes, with professional help and through God all things are possible. How do I know because I have experience this. Stop playing God and passing judgement let get these kids help and support them.
Grandma