My side chick wants it all the time. She knows I'm involved, and I don't know what to do. How can I satisfy this chick without my girl getting upset?
Well...it seems as if you have the best of both worlds. You have two girlfriends. The question you have to ask yourself is which would hurt you more if you did not have them in your life.
The last time I checked, the side chick was just that--a chick on the side. Bang her in the back seat of the car or on the side of a building. You aren't even supposed to get naked with the side chick! You are SUPPOSED to pull it through your boxers, your pants should be around your ankles, you pull your shirt up, get yours, wipe your dick off with a sock and keep it moving. She isn't supposed to feel any sort of entitlement and you aren't supposed to make her feel like she's wanted. She knows her role and the fact that you are even attempting to appease her when you have a woman--the lines of a side chick are becoming blurred.
If you give her GOOD all of the time, she will want it ALL OF THE TIME. Your woman is the only one that should be getting the grade A+ dick. She is the one that you are supposed to be rolling around in bed with naked and spooning with afterwards. The side chick should only get C- or D+ dick--at best. If you treat her like she is supposed to be treated and not give her what you give your woman, when you call her, she will think twice about letting you slide through--scratch that. She will think twice about answering the phone because she knows that's all she's good for and eventually, she will eliminate herself and you won't have to make these decisions.
At the end of the day, if you have actually entertained the thought of satisfying the side chick, you've probably said to her, in the heat of the moment, that you would leave your girl for her and women don't forget these things. If you were smart, you would make your woman happy and not cheat on her. If your woman is smart, she is sleeping around on you. So, if your girl left you for another man because she found out that you were cheating and your side chick found her own man that she didn't have to share, what would you do? Now you have neither one! Your decision should be about choosing who is better for you and not about how to keep them both around.
Now, who are you willing to LOSE?
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