I'm a video model and I have a bad body. Photographers are always trying to get in my pants. I need more pics for my portfolio. Do I give them some? I'm low on money! Help!
Video model w/lots of followers
Miss Video Model,
There are two reasons chicks get in this game--for money or for fame.
If photographers are trying to get in your pants, what makes them different from the average Joe on the corner or from your old neighborhood trying to get in your pants? The photographers can't do anything to get you to the top. Sleeping around for a PORTFOLIO--I'll say it again--SLEEPING AROUND FOR A PORTFOLIO--PICTURES?! Sleeping with a PHOTOGRAPHER will not get you money. It MAY get you pictures and it will DEFINITELY get you nothing short of a reputation.
Look at the other models in the industry. Every day, you see models that were in and on the cover of magazines all of a sudden doing porn. Why? There is no money in this game. Why is there no money? Because there are chicks that's willing to give up the twat and take a bottle patron as payment for a feature role in a video. On the other hand, you see porn stars wanting to become models. Why? Because they made their money & that isn't for them anymore.
If you came in this game to make money, I will warn you ahead of time & tell you there is no money in modeling. If you came in this game to sleep your way to the top because someone compliments you then you are sleeping with the wrong person--the photographer can't do anything but take your picture--sleep with the man paying the photographer to shoot you. If you want pictures for your portfolio and you want to preserve your image and reputation, the answer is simple--PAY FOR THEM!
Sleeping with the photographer only makes it hard for the women who want to honestly work and earn it. Being in a room half naked with a man who you don't know with a camera telling you that he will take it if you don't give it to him--ever had that happen? I have. Why did it happen? Because women like you thinking sleeping with the photographer will get them what they want. All that does is give these photographers the feeling that every chick is like that and that isn't the case. Some of us aren't like that.
Would you sleep around for followers? Would you sleep with your boss in hopes to getting a raise? If the answer is no, then ask yourself why you would sleep with a photographer for pictures.
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