5 Signs That You're Not The ONE On Valentine's Day

With Valentine's Day just around the corner, many of you side chicks and jumpoffs are starting to think this is the day your "so-called" man quits his wife and makes you number 1. WRONG!! The sad truth is that Valentine's Day is about the number 1 woman in your mans life and that should be you if you are his wife, wifey or girlfriend. If you are the side chick/jumpoff don't expect to be anywhere near your "so-called" man until the day after.

However, if you're still thinking that you are the bomb.com and your p*ssy is the best, then let me breakdown to you the 5 signs that will tell you and show you that you are not the number 1 chick in your mans life. These signs were brought to you courtesy of author Maxwell Billieon when you click on the "Full Story" button below:

You know you aren’t the one if:

1. Your man claims that he has to work or go out of town for Valentine’s Day.
Men know that V-Day is reserved for the special person in their lives. A man that is faithful will usually reserve that day to be with you no matter what. If a man claims that he can’t be around without proof, then you aren’t the one.

2. Your man asks you to spend the day after Valentine’s with him instead.When a man pushes you to the day after, it usually means he has more important obligations on the day of…get it? That means you aren’t the one.

3. Your man can only spend Valentine’s Day with you during odd hours.Traditionally couples spend the evening of Valentine’s Day together. “Night time is the right time”, as the song says...so unless your man works the night shift, trying to see you for breakfast or lunch, or after hours, means he probably has other obligations during the hours that count. That means, you aren’t the one.

4. Your man turns his phone off on Valentine’s Day.If you can’t get in touch with your man on a day that is supposed to be reserved for you, then you definitely aren’t the one.

5. Your man gets sexy Happy Valentine’s Day texts, Facebook messages or tweets from women you don’t know.Any faithful and committed man makes sure that other women know he is taken. Single women don’t just randomly send men sexy Valentines Day wishes for no reason, especially not by phone or social network. So if he’s getting hot V-Day wishes from other women via text or the net, it’s probably a case of Social Network Cheating and I’m sorry but, you aren’t the one.

The bottom line is that if a man really cares for you, he will want to spend his time with you on Valentine’s Day. Remember that the "New Man" is all about putting his woman first and if the man you’re with doesn’t do that, then he’s not the one!

Here's to wishing all of you a wonderful and safe Valentine's Day and as always feel free to leave me your thoughts on this post because you know I'm listening!