My girl only likes to be on top. Does that mean she likes to be the strong one? I want to take charge in the bedroom. How do I "get on top"?
This is definitely one topic that women disagree with me and men actually agree with me on. It is one thing for your girl to like to be on top because she enjoys it...but if she is up there the ENTIRE time...she has control issues. Sex is supposed to be the time that you both enjoy each other and if she can't let you get on top then she probably won't let you get a word in edge-wise in a conversation/argument. She is clearly the man and the woman in the relationship--you just so happen to be the one with the penis between your legs.
You want to take charge? It will HAVE to be more than in the bedroom. You are a man. You can't ask her, "Baby, can I get on top?" TAKE CHARGE! Grab her by her waist, stand up, flip her ass over and go in! I'm almost certain that she will probably give you the 'OMG!' face because she is shocked but if you want some control...it has to be done. Now...if you do all of that or find some way to manage to get her on the bottom and she doesn't like it or asks you to stop, you have a BIGGER issue on your hands that, as I stated, is WAY outside of the bedroom and she wants control of everything. If it's like that and you try to take control in more ways than sexually then she may leave but it may be for your own good.
Simply put--you need someone that is more submissive than you are because if you can't be the man in the bedroom, you can't be the man ANYWHERE.
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