By Vanna B.
Question: "Do you have any tips on keeping a man?" - Sharia, DE
Answer: Sharia, you are in luck. Having been with the same man (who is now my
husband) for 11 years, I consider myself knowledgeable and qualified enough to
answer that question. Now most people assume all it takes to keep a man is good
cooking and great sex…and that would be incorrect. Don't get me wrong – those
are definitely necessities, but keep in mind that women with great sex and top-notch
cooking skills are available in abundance. If you want to keep a man and stay
in a long-term relationship, you're going to need MORE.
Be interesting and intelligent. In my opinion, this is #1. Have
ambition. Stay busy with things that are important to you. Show him how
intelligent you are. No man wants a boring, numbskull of a woman. Be able to
hold a conversation with him on a variety of topics, including those of
interest to him. (Yes, you should know and show interest in the things he likes, and become at least
a little knowledgeable on them.)
Give him space. Do not smother your man! Clinginess is a very undesirable
trait. If one of the things he likes to do is go out with his friends, don't
complain about it every time he steps out. Go out with your girls. Keep doing
the things you enjoy. The time you spend apart makes the time you spend
together much more enjoyable!
Remain attractive. Don't let yourself go. People's looks and bodies do
change with age – that's just a natural part of life – but do your best to keep
your appearance attractive. A little effort goes a long way.
Make him feel good. This includes you, yourself being confident and
feeling good, as positivity attracts positivity. Do your best to make him feel
confident by stroking his ego. Compliment him and let him know he is
appreciated. This is also the section in which I would place cooking for him,
pleasing him sexually, giving him massages, etc., as those things definitely help
him feel satisfied and content.
Need advice? Have a question or problem you need insight on? E-mail me at: msvannab@yahoo.com.
Vanna B.
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