Thursday, March 26, 2009

Talking Crazy To The One You Love/Date

Eric Payne says that some women can cause them more pain with a razor sharp tongue and vile words than she can with a two-ton brick. Some of us could win Olympic medals for being Gold Medalists in the verbal abuse field and it's ruining our relationships likely both intimate and personal.
True or False?

TRUE


Times are tough on all of us but we have to find a better way to vent anger and argue constructively. I know this isn't a perfect world and we all are guilty of getting caught up in the moment, but we have to find a better way of expressing anger.

And yes, you can express your point in a serious matter without being vile or malicious.
Talk to him, especially when you're angry and hurt, as if you want him to come back the next day. Because tomorrow is another day and when we take a breather, things just might seem much different. That way you have preserved your love and one another's feelings and caution like that never breeds contempt or resentment. Uttering emasculating, demeaning words be it during the heat of a moment or just because you can is the number one killer of any realtionship, says Eric Payne... and he's right. Follow this link for the full article and interesting comments at Blackplanet.


Eric Payne is wise man who speaks a lot of truth. It might sting once in awhile (especially when he hits the nail on the head), but it's truth.

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