Make Her Feel Like a Woman

Posted By: Nichelle Walker for theblackurbantimes.com

I touched briefly on how women need to feel like a woman in my post Take Me for Granted.


Now we women are funny creators we are emotionally built unlike men. We need to feel special to our men, like he really loves us and only us. We want him to make us feel beautiful and sexy; we need for him to show us attention and understanding. We can be very complicated at times; we have mood swings and can be very bitchie. Some of us are too needy and while others are too independent and stubborn. But at any rate we all want to feel like a woman as much as possible, especially when you’re in a relationship. There’s nothing like a comment at the right time, a face rub that is so gentle it sends a tingle through our spine. A thoughtful gift or a simple thank you for dinner would make us feel like we have the best man on earth. We would love a nice foot rub to show us how much you care on any given day.


We take on a lot of responsibility as women we have to wear 50 different hats in a relationship to make it work. We cook, clean, work, cater, massage, suck, feed, take care of the kids, grocery shop, bill pay, late night porn session, pillow talk and more all in one day. And we wouldn’t complain about doing it-if you made us feel special and appreciated. So fella’s here are a few tips to make your special lady feel like a woman everyday.


While all women are different and you should know what type of lady you have. Some women require less than others, some women want flowers while others will settle for a hug and a kiss on the forehead.


1. (say) I love you— this is so simple you can say it in the morning before she leaves a text message during the day, or right before bed. Letting her know you love her makes her feel special-and mean it!!!

2. Please and Thank you.---these words will go very far with your lady sometimes we feel that you don’t appreciate the hard work we put in. We fix your plate and if you say nothing it can leave your lady mumbling under her breath. By saying babe can you please or saying thank you once you receive--will make her feel that she has a good man that appreciates her—trust me fella’s.

3. Note cards—nothing beats opening up your wallet are reaching in your purse and pulling out a note card that says “I’m thinking about you” or some dirty that makes your lady feel like you went out of your way for her—you will receive cool points for this.

4. Bath water waiting- if wifey is working late and she says to you that she is tired-having her bath water waiting on her will make her feel like Princess Diana when she gets home. Top it off with a nice hot oil rub down will have her floating on cloud nine.

5. Flowers and Candy- just because you thought of her—we know on saint Valentines Day we can get a rose—but what about all the other days of the year? Sending flowers to your boo makes her feel special—do this as often as possible I know it’s a recession but you can catch the man selling flowers on the side of the expressway.

6. Day off to herself- if you and your lady have kids give her a day off-she needs some me time to go and take care of business. Let her know that you’ll be staying in to watch the kids and give her some money and tell her to have fun. This will show her that your care about her feelings and understand that she needs a break—we all do.

7. Date night-we want our men to make plans to-it’s so many times we end up planning everything we want our men to plan a fun filled day all by himself. Surprise her with tickets to her favorite show are maybe a meal at her favorite restaurant. We just want you to show us that you care about us.

8. Great sex- sometimes we want to be ruffed up and man handled in the bed room-we want to be told to shut up and obey. Give your lady the business on the regular I promise this will keep her cooking, cleaning and doing all that you want her to.

9. Most important we want to be listened to—listen to your lady sometimes she can drop lines like-bay I smelled this perfume I wanted it-maybe I’ll get it later. This is your cue to run out and buy it. This shows her that you really care about her and you really listen when she is speaking.

These are just a few ways to make your lady feel like a woman and if you notice most of them don’t require spending money. But like I said before all women are not alike you might have a woman who wants a new Gucci bag are something.

Ladies did I leave out something’s help me out with the list, what makes you feel like a woman?