Tricking On A Man

Posted By: Nichelle Walker for the theblackurbantimes.com

"Me tricking on a man, not likely"- Nichelle Walker

"It ain’t tricking if you go it"--rappers all around the world..

Well I am very fickle when it comes to tricking on a man. I’ma be real—I’m very old fashion and I believe a woman should not take care of a man.

The bible says “If a man shall not work he shall not eat” Amen to that because I couldn’t agree more with the Lord.

It’s a fine line that is hard not to cross with tricking, sometimes you don’t even see it coming and bam you’re getting used. And to keep it real men use women way more than women use men. Prime example, you think this dude is your main boo, ya’ll kicking it hard. You kicking him down with ends when he asks for money and than you find out he got a wife and kid. No Maim not going to do it. Men can be gold diggers too, just like women and really there better at it! They will get into your head, hit you with some boss peen and pimp you out of your paycheck before you know it. Men have a way of making you feel like there down for you, they get into your ear and whisper let me hold this down—f-- that! If you want to know how to loose a guy in five minutes—just let that ninja asked me for some money--if he ask me for a loan I’m gone.

Even now after being with the same dude since I was 16 I’m 28 now I will only loan him money and he has to pay it back. I don’t take kindly of taken care of a man or giving him my hard earned dollars. You got to pay the cost to be the boss—I don’t see nothing wrong with gifts and meals every now and than but me shelling over ends is out the question.

If a man wants to be the head of the relationship than he got to pay the cost to be the boss—and I’m not saying buying gifts is what he has to do. But taking care of home, yes and I won’t see it any other way. If you get with a chick that like gifts than you know that before you get in to deep with them. My problem is as a woman you have to be careful about tricking on a man.. Make sure he is right and yes I feel you should spend some money on him from time to time. And if your man falls off because we all fall down—you should be there to pick him back up. But your eyes have to be wide open to make sure he’s not trying to get what he can from you. It’s all kinds of ways to pick a man back up and help him get on his feet, like helping him find a job-hooking him up with somebody you know is hiring. If he’s getting unemployment you can stay on top of him to file his claims, things like that. Just be careful because I know a lot of women who have been used by ninja’s pimping---but one thing for sure they won’t get me…