This term has been used since the beginning of time but can it be done? Can you really turn a hoe into a housewife? Can you? I see this happening everywhere. Every time I turn and look I see a good brotha marrying (or wifing up) some slutbag. Is this the new thing to do? Is this what men really want? Do you mean to tell me that my good behavior and not sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry is not attractive? I don't know. I'm starting to think that if I became a whore I would probably be married by now. Something is definitely wrong when women like Karrine Stephans are getting married and I'm not!!! Do I have to sleep with 30 dudes from the industry, write a book about it and detail what I'm great at in bed just to find my husband? Is this what I'm reduced to? Am I lost when thinking men want someone who is faithful, a good cook, a good Mom, a freak in the bed, and a generally nice looking woman? Do men no longer need those requirements? Do men now want something else? What I want to get across to everyone (whether male or female) is that what looks good to you is not necessarily good for you. You can have a fine looking woman, who strips, does King magazine photoshoots, dresses nice and has everything you desire in a woman....but get to know that woman.........and she may not have good hygiene, she probably can't make a home cooked meal, her apartment is not clean and her kids are with anyone who is willing to watch them. Does she seem very attractive to you now? Hmmm.....I'm gonna need your help on this one guys. Hit me up and let me know if my qualities are no longer needed in life cuz I'll switch it up. LMAO!!! Hell nah! Ain't no one going to change who I am as a person. I have morals and values and children who are counting on me to make it happen. But your opinions are definitely welcome. Hit me up!!
Its as simple as this....."hoes" and "sluts" are nothing more than women who have a sexuality that isnt repressed and being they are so comfortable with this part of their life, they usually posess a certain prowess and energy that comes across in their every move. Men are drawn into that and it can be very captivating. Especially in this society where women have been taught wrong, they have been taught to supress their femininity and be independant, strong, smart, and to compete with men. Well the only problem with that is....it doesnt make a man desire you. Sure you can make a living and get all the accollades, but in the mating/attraction department it does ABSOLUTELY nothing. It sounds good on paper and thats about it. At the end of the day we are all animals, and biology trumps psychology. So the animal instinct within a man wants a sexually powerful woman who isnt afraid to show her sexual side. Society has taught us to label these women as bad women but at the end of the day they are still women and they obviously posess a quality that you safe girls lack not knowingly. So instead of hating you need to befriend one of these sluts and see what it is they are doing right.
ReplyDeleteI take it that this comment is coming from a slutbag. Nuff said!
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