I cheated on my husband and I want to know how to break it to him it was a mistake. I love him how can I make him stay
When it comes to infidelity, the first thing I automatically assume is you are unhappy with your husband.
#1: Do NOT say it was a mistake. A mistake is stepping on someone's shoe or spilling juice on your shirt or misspelling a word. A mistake is something you don't mean to do. Get my drift? You didn't make a mistake and fall onto another man's dick. He didn't make a mistake, stumble into a room and onto a bed where you just so happened to be naked and lying with you legs open and he fell in. Doesn't work that way and as a woman, I KNOW, we plan EVERYTHING. When we want someone, we plan to make it just right so we can enjoy it.
If you love your husband enough, you should be able to discuss anything with him. If you can argue with him, you can discuss the negative parts of the relationship in hopes of resolve. Now, if he is an upstanding man and you cheated on him, it just means you are selfish.
If you feel the right thing to do is to tell him, then you risk a lot. Honesty is the best policy but you honestly don't have to say a word. Some things are worth not saying anything about and to me, this is one of them. If anything, make a deal with yourself that you won't let any other temptation ruin what you have at home.
Remember, he won't have to go if he doesn't know.
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