Single Forever or Happily Ever After

I use to believe in the fairy tales that one day I would meet the man of my dreams and we would get married, have kids, and just live happily ever after together in our beautiful home. Well now that I am older I wonder, will I ever have that happy ending?  Don’t get me wrong yes one day I would like to have the husband, the kids, but the older I get I start to think maybe that is not what God has in store for me. Now do any other women feel this way? I know I can’t be alone.

How many times have you been watching tv ,or look at people around you and hear someone is getting married or having a kid and think when will it happen to me. Then all of a sudden you are so sad. STOP IT!!! Things could be worst for real.

We as women have always had in set in our minds from a young age that we are to be in the home to be the wife and the mother. We are the ones that cook, clean, kiss the wounds when the kids get hurt, stand by your man when the times are hard. The thing is no one ever said, “Hey you may never get married and you may never have kids”.  

So does this really make us any less? No it doesn’t. Let me real honest right now. Not every woman NEEDS to have a baby or a man. For me I decided if I don’t have a child then have then there is always adoption. The funny thing is every time I say adoption and of course I get these strange looks.  I of course don't care, but why is this so important.

I feel like this, I refuse to just settle for the first person that omes along. I want the person that I spend the rest of my life with to be perfect for me. That does not mean he has to be perfect but just the right man for me. So having said that: women please don't get down if you haven't found him. Maybe its just not in the cards right now.


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