Relationship Vitalities ~ Part 1

Destinee Love ~ Author

We get into relationships for the love, right? Love is what we want to feel. The more we experience, the more intimacy and more close the relationship seems to us.  

But most of us feel no true sense of control over how much love we can experience or provide for our partner. In the beginning stages we felt a lot of love and appreciation from our mate. In the dating phase, it was pretty great.   Once we are living together after the initial dating phase, we sometimes felt loved and sometimes felt distant - or just okay or whatever.  However, there are ways to make each other feel really loved every day. 

The first thing you need to do is to discover your personal structure for feeling loved. Yes, you have a "structure" for feeling loved by your mate. There is some thing or a combination of things that he/she can do that make you feel really loved. You know what it is though you may not have thought about it in this way before.  For example, you are not overwhelmed by feelings of love when a fly buzzes around your ear. When your lover whispers warm words into your ear you may feel loved beyond. 

The point is that some things make you feel loved, and some do not.  Feelings of love don't just happen to us. Oftentimes, feelings are results; they have causes or "structures.” Of all the things your mate does, when you can identify the behaviors that make you feel loved you can start to feel its purpose.

Some pointers to keep in mind:

•   Bringing more love into your relationship on purpose every day.
•   Learn skills to help you keep love thriving.
•   Learn about the importance of play to a healthy love life. 
•   Learn the key words to acceptance and imperfections of each other

In my next article, I will discuss keeping the intimacy and closeness in your relationship. 

Much Love, and remember to “Keep It Sexi!!!”

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