Po Folk Radio Interview w/ Shod Harris: Discusses Twenty, Relationship Advice, Unprotected Sex and More!!!!

With the release of the relationship documentary, Twenty:  Rules Of Attraction, Shod Harris meets up with the folks over at Po Folk Radio to promote the documentary.  In this interview, they discuss everything from the documentary, relationship advice, having sex with or without a condom and much more.  This is definitely worth checking out.  Powered by The Rebel Society.

Po Folk Radio Interviews Shod Harris of The Rebel Society (Video)

Part 1 of 2. 5 ways to get your man to "put a ring on it" aka Kenya Moore

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1. Cook for him..not all the time, but sometimes. Men love food..show him love that way. Make his favorite or buy it at the store and fake it.

Video: J-Rod's The Truth About..... Sex In A Relationship w/ Porn Star Gizelle

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Act Like a Woman, Think like a Woman.

ENOUGH ALREADY!

At some point people are going to realize what their roles are in life. We all have our place in society and it is that way for a reason. When we get outside of that role, we can expect with it, the imbalance that applies. For example, as a human being, I have no business acting like a dog. That is for the dog to do. I need to be behaving as a human does. I need to be working, taking care of my family, living my life.


So when people put out the dumb idea that I need to behave like a woman and think like a man, I think it is time to speak up and say no. I am going to act like what I am, and think like what I am. As a woman, for me to think like a man is saying that I distrust my ability as a woman to be just what I am suppose to be, the best woman I can be. If for a minute people think that it is wise to expect someone to think like someone else when it comes to the affairs of the heart, we are pretty much asking them to become psychic, which for a large percentage of us is not our gift in life.

Steve Harvey recently published a book and the movie  "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" which by just the title, is saying that women are doing the wrong things when understanding how men men really are, and that we need to accommodate that in order to fit in with them. So to balance the scales, we have to think as men think, so we can be prepared for the way men act. It adds to society another ideal that is not beneficial to women, just a moneymaker for Steve Harvey. Personally this is the main reason why relationships are about as reliable as well, nothing.


The main reason why we are so disjointed from each other in the first place is because we are not doing what we are supposed to be doing as ourselves. We are too busy trying to be one up on each other, as opposed to be prepared to being just ourselves. Steve Harvey is pretty much just using the insecurities that women have when it comes to relationships and men, and spinning it to entertain us rather than teaching us how to deal with ourselves. It is the old "Keep them laughing to stop them from what is making them cry" ploy. At some point we have to stop adding unnecessary subject matter that is not helping, and in some cases harming more than anything. The last thing I need as a woman is for a man to tell me how to think.

I can not be mad at Steve making money legally, but I still feel it is at the expense of mis-educating the public. At some point, when do you put out the movie "Act like a Man, Because you are one?" Too many men walking around here acting like children, acting like women, and in some cases, acting like bitches. As a man Steve may can help men be more responsible, more in touch with being mature, and present in the lives of women where they don't have to struggle to figure them out. If anything Steve Harvey needs to write a book drawing from his own mistakes with wives and women and write from THAT point of view rather than trying to school the ladies. That is what needs to be done. But Steve Harvey, just like everyone else knows, men are NOT going to pay to see that. So we know why this movie was made... MONEY. 

Torn Apart

Destinee Love - Writer/Poet

My insides feel ripped,
Can't seem to filter the pain

I'm slowly, and for certain
Going totally insane

I know what is happening,
I've been here before

I'm stronger and wiser,
But know we mean more

I've been called crazy, and pitiful
For loving a man

Who seems to find pleasure and solace,
With another one's hand

I have no hatred nor regret,
For the time that we shared

If I look back I can remember,
The times that you cared

So much distance between us,
At times not so kind

There was cheating and lying,
I have the visuals stuck in my mind

Forgiveness and trust,
Was given every time

I believed in you, stuck by you
No straying, or breaking the line

I knew this was special,
Right from the start

Falling in love and liking you,
Handing over my heart

Now I'm left with no contact,
And a broken heart

We planned on forever,
Never getting the start

When asked if I still love you,
I don't hesitate to say

I will forget you forever,
Not believing this was fate.

Copyright ©Destinee Love

A Night of Passion

Destinee Love

Begins with the kiss of two lovers caressing and touching, the exploration of each other’s sweet sensual touches.  Lips meeting, fingers entwined in her hair, her gripping the back of his head unquestionably living the lustful moment.

Candles flickering, soft sensual music playing while lust and pleasure fills the air.  Laying side by side next to one another staring hungrily in each other’s eyes when all of a sudden; Clothes begin ripping from one another, quickly entering the other as a groan slips from the tip of his soft kissable lips. The scratching of skin and gripping of sheets, moans filling each other’s ears as both beg for more, and only more.

Beads of sweat run down as their gyrating bodies move faster, him penetrating her with swift speed, entering in and out faster and deeper, harder then slower. Hours of forbidden lust between these two lovers, with no one to disrupt their passion as they seep into the pleasures of each other’s craving for desire.  A groan and a moan ring out, their

Relationship Vitalities ~ Part 1

Destinee Love ~ Author

We get into relationships for the love, right? Love is what we want to feel. The more we experience, the more intimacy and more close the relationship seems to us.  

But most of us feel no true sense of control over how much love we can experience or provide for our partner. In the beginning stages we felt a lot of love and appreciation from our mate. In the dating phase, it was pretty great.   Once we are living together after the initial dating phase, we

"A Waltz With Love" #PoetsCorner

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Destinee Love ~ Author/Poet

"A Waltz With Love"


My heart beats for only you my love
feel it reaching for you into the night
to dance a melody of pure delight
the sweetest song of affection from above


Take me into your arms tonight
hold me close and dance real real slow
moving together in the melodious candlelight 
seductive words of delight..not even afraid to show


Meaning more than just the world to me
this is what I’ve been waiting for
a time of healing devotion..your heart to adore
a place where passion exist ..letting it be


Lets hold each other real tight tonight
pressing close and dancing slow
moving together rhythmically in the dim light
belonging with only you love..please never let me go

Destinee Love, Writer of erotic poems & passages. Read my expressions through love, passion, lust, intimacy, and erotica.

“Expressions of Love, Passion, and Intimacy” is my first collection of my spoken words about love, passion, and affection. Once you have experienced it, you can understand the true meaning of it {Ecstasy}.

Visit my blog site http://www.destineelove.com for blog post and excerpts from the book. Also, visit my webpagehttp://www.destineelove.net to get your personalized copy today!!

Valentine's Day is coming!!!!

Destinee Love, Author

Have you given any thoughts on what you would like to do for that special day?  Well, coming up soon I will post some great ideas that does not involve being materialistic or spending unnecessary money.  Who said Valentine's Day had to be about how much you spend on a gift, or given a gift at all?  Sure its nice, but isn't spending quality time with the one you love better than expecting the same old card and flowers every year?  Single?-Doesn't mean you have to let that worry you.  I have great ideas for you too!! Until then, please watch the "Man of Love" video - Turn off the Lights!. This will put a lot of great ideas in your mind. Stay Tuned...

Destinee Love, Writer of erotic poems & passages. 

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Top 5 reasons why you should rent a home rather than buy one

This weekend I’ll throw $1,100 down the drain. That is to say, I’ll pay my rent. Pop-finance pundits have long used the drain cliché to describe how renters like me waste money, while homeowners with mortgages “pay themselves” and “build equity.”
In April 2007 I argued something different: Renting Makes More Financial Sense Than Homeownership. Basically, houses produce poor returns over long time periods while stocks and other investments produce good ones, and the outlook for houses is especially poor now, so I’d rather rent cheaply and funnel my extra cash into something other than a house.
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Chris Brown..A young Ike Turner?

By: The Year of the Black Man

Some young brothers choose to use their money and spend it without caution. The money being spent on cars, jewelry, and clothing is not the problem. The problem seems to be guidance and lack of common sense. This latest act of stupidity by Chris Brown is one that defies all logic. You're 19 years old and on top of the entertainment world. You're dating Rihanna, what more do you need. Then the brother chooses to pull an Ike Turner
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