Friday, January 20, 2012

#AskEmily 1.20.2012: I cheated on wifey with a girl from the club. Do I tell wifey or not?

Dear Emily:
I cheated on wifey with a girl from the club. Do I tell wifey or not? By the way I'm still seeing the jump-off too. What do I do? Help!
-Steve C.

Steve...
What's in a name? Personally, the term 'wifey' doesn't mean much. 'Wifey' is a type--not the wife, but you treat her like it; the prototype. HOWEVER--if you respect her enough to put her on a pedestal to call her that, why are you cheating on her? You have a jump off AND you hit the chick from the club--what do you do? CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS TO SINGLE. That way, you won't owe anyone an explanation on where you stick your stick. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single. Marriage isn't meant for everyone. It takes a strong man to admit that he isn't ready to relinquish his bachelor lifestyle.
...but if this is the WIFE, a female partner that you are in a marital relationship with, please believe that you will not have to tell her because she will find out. If you decide to tell her & she seems to not care much, it is because she's seeing her boss and still screwing the ex boyfriend or your best friend. It's called 'Karma' and she is MEAN.

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