Well, I can't come into the bedroom and show you what you need to do to BUUUT...One thing I can say is you have to have an open mind. Not saying you should go against any instilled values and morals you may have to keep him happy because truth be told, if he loves you, he will still respect your wishes. If you are willing to try it and the two of you enjoy it then expect him to want it more often. For example: ANAL or even a THREESOME. If you don't mind trying it, do it. However, what if you don't like it and he does? Are you willing to continue to do it despite how you feel or just get used to it? If the answer is 'none of the above' then I advise you to decline.
If you aren't sure what he likes...ASK. Ask him what he wants you to do. If he is unsure, he is definitely tired of the monotony and it is time to wing it. Think of the things you want him to do that he doesn't do and incorporate those into the spice. One thing you never want to do is bruise your man's ego so if he seems uneasy, tell him that you are trying something new too to ease him.
Now...we've heard the classic 'lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets' line, but personally, when I want to get my guy all riled up, I'll get it started in public. If you aren't yet comfortable with starting to do new things in the bedroom, change the way/places you get his engine revved. Let's just say you go to dinner. Ask the waiter for a table in the back of the restaurant. When the waiter leaves, make your way under the table and bury your face in his lap. He's not gonna scream because you are in public...he won't tell you to stop either. Now, with a surprise like that, you could probably go home and do the same things you normally do and he will still be blown away because you've taken him to a different world MENTALLY. It will keep him on his toes waiting to see what you will pull out of your bag of tricks.
That's the key.
...but NEVER forget--he loves you. It will take time but don't take too long. You don't want him to start looking elsewhere for the pleasure that you have the capability of providing him with.
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