RHOA'S Kandi Burruss is not going to the SO SO DEF 20th Anniversary....because she slept with Jermaine Dupri when she was in Xscape

By TBUT STAFF

So Kandi Burruss isn't going to attend the So So Def 20th Anniversary celebration. A few So So Def alumni are not taking it too well. Bow Wow has said that "No one would even know who she was without Jermaine" said Bow Wow. He blasted her on twitter saying:

 "JD likes to keep quiet but... Yo Kandi is wack for not wanting to show up for jd for "20th anniversary so so def show" put ego to the side and give the fans what they want and understand w/ out jd know one would even know who you are. You aint Michael, this aint the Jackson 5. She act'n like she booked out like she too busy! Better yet dont come. The ones thats there are the ones who really got live for JD and the history of the label."

The other part to this tricky situation is that Kandi and Jermaine used to be "friends with benefits". This was the alleged reason that the group Xscape broke up. Here's how Kandi addressed it in 2010 on singersroom.com:

“But just like anybody, sometimes you can work with people and you be like, hmm I wonder how he is in the bedroom, you know, and you just try it out… we hung out, we was friends, like playing pool, talking trash and then you know you hear somebody say yeah I’m a beast, I’m this, I’m that, you know how you can be around your friends talking about sex or whatever and then you be thinking like, I wonder is it that good, you know? Let’s be realistic, it wasn’t me trying to get anything out of the situation. We already had hit records. We already had hits. It wasn’t like I was trying to do it to get somewhere. It was just out of curiosity.” 

So the real issue might be that being that Kandi is newly engaged to Todd..she might be smart to keep her distance just to keep her man happy.