Sunday, July 15, 2012

#AskEmily 7.15.2012 "Threesome"

Hey. My husband wants to invite his "friend" into our bedroom to spice things up. What do I do? Should I say yes? She's very pretty..fyi.

Chantel


Chantel,
I have to be honest--I have never done a threesome so this is not my expertise BUT personally, when a man has someone on the side that he refers to as his 'friend' that he wants to invite into your bedroom, a red flag should go up. A married man...with a friend...who discusses sex...they are most likely messing around any way and he is looking for a way to justify his wrongdoing by bringing you into the picture. If that in fact isn't the case and your husband is not cheating on you then basically, he is bored with what you do in the bedroom. It's time for you to spice up your personal sex life because you have to look at the possibilities of what will happen if you go through with the threesome. Let's analyze it. What if she does the things that you don't do or what if he shows her more affection than he shows you? You are now put in the position to compete with a woman over your man. What if you walk in your home only to catch your husband with her in an intimate setting without you? You've opened the door to it so, it's not a big deal, right? Sometimes, you need not put yourself in bad situations. Be three steps ahead. Start doing the things that make him forget about any other woman. If you aren't into doing or trying new things, try new places to do the things you like. Men like spontaneity. ALOT.


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